This is in continuation to my earlier post. I have received a lot of comments about my losers diaries, which according to some is negative and people do not want to read about negative thoughts and losers.

Well that precisely is my point, why do people run away from losers, why dont people want to read what a loser has to say??. Are they afraid that they at some point of time have been losers or lost something and dont want to revisit the incident. Do they want to elude pain which once visited them.

Do people always want to read about successful people and learn from them, and not from somebody who has committed mistakes or has been a victim of circumstances?? ummm.....

According to me there are three kinds of people in life. first category are the poeple who go to the ocean and dip their fingers in the water and say the water is too cold and wait for the water to turn warm.

Second category are the people who in a jiffy take off their clothes and swim towards the other shore and in the middle just lose hope and drown.

Third category is who jump in the water, swim like champions and reach the other shore, waving their hands to all others who are either in water or are waiting at the shore

I as a loser am in the first category, waiting for godot!! or waiting for the water to turn warm, waiting for intervention. Does that mean I am weak, does that mean that I dont have what it takes to succeed. I am still searching for answers

You know one thing I know for sure that losers are much more tougher than any other people since to handle all those disappointments, finishing last, the pain of rejection and the all other terms of dejection, you need to be strong, both emotionally and mentally because otherwise one would be broken, but we losers carry the burden of our failures and losses on our shoulders and mind, ready to face another day, another dejection with some gutso

We know we cant slip up because life would throw yet another tough day on us and we losers have to stand up to it, ready for life, Come on Life give it to me!!!!

Hi friends, This is my first ever blog and you might be wondering, why do I call it a loser' diaries?. Well Becos I was born a loser and I have often wondered that what exactly is a loser

To find an answer, I dont have to go too far, just a trip to the mirror on my wall and out pops a loser. I have been a guy who has managed to lose everything in my life, be it people whom i love, like or adore, or situations, or career, or sports.

Invariably I have attracted everything which is negative in life, I am like a walking pole where every negative dog would get attracted to and take a pee

What have I done to deserve this, some may call it past Karma's, some would call it  bad decision making or Plain bad luck. Well I think Its a combination of all these.

For successful people success comes as a birthright, for us losers success does not come at all, even if it does it comes in miniscule doses enough to keep you hoping and too small to keep you satisfied.

But then exactly who is a Loser???, what characteristics would define a loser, look around you and you find them in plenty. I for one think that one against the whole world has ganged up is called a loser. Whenever a situation would arise where there are 50 50 chances of good or bad, You bet that the loser would get a bad one, and you can go on and keeo reducing the odds and still the loser would get the lower odd.

Losers are their own worst enemies, ask me, I am one of my worst enemy because I do what I like, I am stubborn, I am mentally very tough, I am emotional, I let my heart do the talking, I am straightforward, I am not a diplomat, I am not a hypocrite and I am over sensitive, I cry when ppl cry and I can empathize

A sure recipe for disaster isnt it?. In a world where people put on so many different masks, to be a simpleton is a crime and you are branded as losers, since you do not measure success in life by rupees, houses or material things which all successful people are known by

Yes I am a loser!!!!

rest in my next post, pls drop in a word